Fretting vs. Trust

When we are fretful our behavior seldom exhibits peace. We do not act as if we are formed to the image of Christ. Think about it: does Jesus ever fret?

To fret is to be anxious about the outcome. It is low-grade worry. Things won’t happen according to my timetable, my plan, my program.  MY.  MY way. This is a hidden way to say I want to be god.  In charge.  Doesn’t this smell sulfurous?  Genesis 3, again.

Jesus does not fret because he knows the beginning from the end. There are no surprises coming his way. He knows his father’s plans and designs will come to pass. There is no doubt in him  because he knows his father. Therefore, when we fret we are saying that in one particular area of our lives we do not know the Father. We are not confident in him to handle the situation aright.

Jesus does not fret because he is God, Lord of time and Lord of circumstances. He is at peace with the outcome.

The antidote to fretting is TRUST. Not in ourselves, but in God who is our ground, our source, our goal. That only comes from knowing Him. We are to know him as Jesus knows him. Since the veil has been torn, we can know him. Then our plans become yielded to his plans and His plans always succeed.

As we know the Father and are known, there is a continuing process of being formed in Jesus’ image. And that is nothing to fret about.

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Godless?

“The godless in heart harbor resentment; even when he fetters them, they do not cry for help.” Job 36:13

“The godless in heart harbor resentment.” This says those who have not had their hearts converted to and by the Lord harbor or hold on to resentment. It would appear from this statement that it is a given: godless = heart full of resentment. The question then is this true when turned around? Is it accurate to say that those who harbor resentment and bitterness are godless? Does resentment shut the door to God’s presence?

Resentment and its companion bitterness, two ugly attitudes of heart, are the seedbed for others as well. Left to flourish like weeds, they grow into hatred, desire for revenge, and murder. Self pity grows up like thorns in the flower garden, causing pain to those who come near. Bitterness poisons the soul soil so that joy cannot take root and its fragrance is lost to mankind. Resentment is the seed of division; true love and friendship wither in the presence of judgment and condemnation.

Is it possible for someone to love God, and proclaim to be a follower of Jesus, and at the same time have a deep root of bitterness within? Or are these proclamations hollow, without reality, because the two cannot coexist?

Coming close to faith in Christ, we learn about the reality of His Kingdom and our inclusion in it. He assures the would-be believer that accepting His offer of himself means that He, Father and Spirit all will come and make their home within. John 14:23; 17:23. Thus “en-godded,” people take on a new identity, new world view, a new way of living and loving.

But there is no space in the Spirit-filled life for the weeds. The reverse is true; the weeds choke out the life Jesus wants to live in each individual. We become godless to the degree we harbor, hang on to, nourish and dwell upon our resentment and bitterness. These attitudes have no place in heaven or earth.

Therefore, it is wise to get rid of them.

Resentment and bitterness can only be eradicated by the willingness to forgive and release the offender and situation. Hanging on to unforgiveness “because they deserve it,” destroys you, your flower garden, your future, making you become godless.

Jesus has a better idea. Let it go, and let Him in.